Keeping Open Communication With Your Child And Ex-spouse

Mar 10, 2023

When going through a divorce or separation, maintaining open communication with your ex-spouse is crucial for the well-being and happiness of your child. At the Law Office of Stanley E. Robison, Jr, we understand the importance of fostering positive relationships even after a relationship ends. In this comprehensive guide, we will provide you with valuable insights and effective strategies to ensure smooth and amicable communication between you, your child, and your ex-spouse.

1. The Impact of Communication on Your Child

Children often bear the brunt of conflicts between parents. When parents engage in open and respectful communication, it helps create a stable environment for the child to thrive. Regular communication not only reassures your child that both parents are involved and care about their well-being but also enables them to express their feelings and concerns.

1.1 The Benefits of Open Communication

Open communication allows your child to:

  • Feel supported: By maintaining open lines of communication between both parents, your child will feel emotionally supported throughout the divorce or separation process.
  • Adjust better: Consistent and respectful communication fosters a sense of stability and routine, helping your child adjust to changes more easily.
  • Express emotions: It provides a safe space for your child to express their emotions, concerns, and worries without fear of judgment.
  • Receive reassurance: Regular communication assures your child that both parents love them unconditionally, even if they no longer live together.

2. Strategies for Effective Communication

To help you establish and maintain open communication with your ex-spouse, consider the following strategies:

2.1 Set Clear Boundaries

It's important to set clear boundaries with your ex-spouce about how you will communicate and what topics are appropriate for discussion. Establish a schedule for communication, whether it's through in-person meetings, phone calls, or using digital tools. Respect each other's time and privacy during these communications.

2.2 Keep the Focus on Your Child

During conversations, always keep the focus on your child's well-being and best interests. Avoid bringing up past grievances or engaging in arguments that could escalate tensions. Remember, your child's happiness and emotional stability should be the priority.

2.3 Utilize Technology

Take advantage of technology to facilitate communication between you and your ex-spouse. Emails, instant messaging, or shared online calendars can be useful tools for coordinating schedules, discussing important matters, or sharing updates about your child's life. Choose platforms that both parties are comfortable using and where messages can be documented if necessary.

3. Seek Professional Support

When navigating the challenges of co-parenting and maintaining open communication, it is beneficial to seek professional support. The Law Office of Stanley E. Robison, Jr specializes in family law matters, including divorce and child custody issues. Our experienced team can provide you with guidance, legal advice, and mediation services to help you navigate the complexities of family law proceedings.

3.1 Mediation Services

Mediation is an effective alternative to litigation, allowing both parties to work together with a neutral third-party mediator. Our skilled mediators can facilitate conversations and help you reach mutually beneficial agreements regarding parenting plans, visitation schedules, and other important aspects of co-parenting.


Maintaining open communication with your child and ex-spouse is fundamental to creating a healthy and supportive environment for your child. By prioritizing their well-being and following effective strategies, you can set the foundation for a positive co-parenting relationship. Trust the Law Office of Stanley E. Robison, Jr for expert legal guidance in family law matters. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and let us assist you in navigating your family's unique circumstances.

Adrian Cosma
Great read! 💯 Keeping open communication is key to ensuring a smooth transition for your child post-divorce.
Oct 12, 2023